20 May Our priest actually allowed us to take the FOCCUS test at home and on our own time. Then we brought them back, he scored them and we discussed some of. 9 Aug This ‘test’ is required if you want to get married in a Catholic Church. We took it July 21st and our pastor told us it would take about 10 days for. I took the foccus test and based on the questions, since there aren’t like “wrong answers,” because a lot of them are like “we have discussed,” or “I am.

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It just seems like more direction on how to discuss things, since I have a hard time opening up. I just wish we were geting more actual counseling from the priest. Interfaith Marriages, Remarriages, Cohabiting Couples. If so it’s not a “test. If the priest is the course organizer, I would wait late after class one night and tell him about your concerns.

We never actually heard the results.

Here’s a link to sample questions: I know it is not testt test as that is why I put it into quotation marks. There are certain behaviors or habits in my future spouse that sometimes annoy me. I can withdraw my consent at any time by unsubscribing.

Other things we had a short discussion about and our mentor couple gave us some guidance.

A D U 39 My future spouse and I are open to having children. My priest just said everything was fine.

REFOCCUS guides a couple’s private discussion at home, as part of a weekend retreat, tet in five weekly evenings of discussion with other couples.

The results form gest include the orginial question which makes it hard to figure out what some of the discussions should be. I’m getting married in a Catholic Church and no one told me about a test? My “test” was questions! A D U 26 We have discussed the ways our families solved problems and how this may rest our problem solving.


It asked questions like, “Do you have a problem with your partners gambling habits? We do not share our email database with any marketers or third parties. We came up with a couple things we hadn’t thought about and now we’ve discussed them. I figured might as well! October Thanks ChelseaMorning. We had things that were flagged for discussion.

We didn’t lie but had friends who did just because the Catholic Church frowns upon it and they got caught in the lie and felt like big fat idiots when the Deacon called them out on it. We get our resuts tonight.

I think our relationship is pretty good, although there are areas we need to talk about more. He asked us a bunch of questions when we met with him and told us we were good to go and to get with the sister for pre-cana info. He gave us some feedback and guidance, but mostly just wanted us to communicate with one another about the areas that we answered differently on.

What happens if your answers don’t match up with your fiance’s? He then gave us a book and said “pick readings and your vows and bring it back after pre-cana” He asked us a bunch of questions when we met with him and told us we were good to go and to get with the sister for pre-cana info.

Our priest gave us our responses, went over some highlights, and then let us go through the rest on our own.

FOCCUS | Pre-Marriage Inventory Frequently Asked Questions

Some we just read the ofccus wrong. This “test” is required if you want to get married in a Catholic Church. A D U I sometimes feel that this may not be the right person for me to marry. Facilitator training prepares facilitators and mentor couples to administer, interpret and discuss FOCCUS Inventory results with couples.


Notify me when new comments are added in this discussion. The priest is my cousin so he was real cool about things lol. The responses are “agree” “disagree” and “unsure. Are you talking about the fully engaged inventory? It allows couples to identify their strengths and needs, while tesg them to move further into marriage education, skill trainings or work with a mentor couple.

I know that it is probably called differently in parishes. They separated us and we spent probably 45 minutes filling it out. It provides them with a personalized profile of their relationship, its strengths and challenges. You can always call and ask. Might be worth a shot. MrsPinkPeony 7 years ago Wedding: A D U 44 We have decided how we will share specific responsibilities in managing our finances. My future spouse and I can talk about our sexual fears, hopes and preferences.

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If they are going to interpret your results they should absolutely have the questions on hand so that you can fpccus through item by item—particularly if you answered a lot of questions with “uncertain.

Not a big deal. When I took it, it was a long test of questions regarding your relationship and your future marriage.